Wednesday, March 19, 2008

Text Message

Today while I was sitting in my living room watching tv. Then all of a sudden I got this random text. It was one of those forward messages that you're suppose to read and send to so many people. Well I usually just read it and delete but this one was different; I actaully agreed with it. It said "Isn't it ironic? We ignore who adore us. Adore who ignores us. Love who hurts us and hurt who love us!" I know to some of you this might sound stupid but when you think about it, that's so true. I can honestly say the guy I'm completely in love with has hurt me more than anyone. How can someone who says they love you more than anything go and hurt you. It doesn't make any sense! I know some of you are thinking if he hurt you so bad then why are you with him. Well I thought the same thing but after months not being together he proved to me how sorry he was and still haven't done anything since. So that's good. But back to the message.. I know so many people that likes someone who is completely not interested and still tries. Then doesn't even pay attention to the person who actually cares for them. Why is that? there are so many couples that cheat on one another and come back saying how sorry they are! It's so stupid! If you seriously love someone then just stick with that one person who makes you happy! It's retarded to ruin something that special. Ever heard of the 80- 20 rule? Say the person you love is your 80 and the person you supposedly cheat one with is your 20. You never pick a 20 over your 80.

2 comments:

michaelparker said...

I understand where you are coming from. I had a boyfriend about four years ago cheat on me with my best friend at the time. I mean talk about low down dirty son-of-a-bitch. And we broke up and are just now getting to a point where I don't want to dip him in molten lava when I see him. My relationship with my best friend at the time has suffered the most. It died and there will never be another chance for us to be friends. Point of this is that you know how much you are willing to put up with. For all those out there telling you to dump him, or to stay with him, you make up your mind on your own time. And if you think the best thing is to dropkick his ass into the Atlantic Ocean, then do so. But until then, follow your heart.

Anonymous said...

Sarah. I love the 20-80 rule because it is so true. I had never heard of it until I sae the movie, "Failure to Launch." It is very true and make sense. I mean a guy always thinks he has it better until he is in the situation and realizes that the 80 is way better than the 20. That other thing about the text message is crazy too. It is true that we always tend to go to the ones who urt us the most.