Wednesday, January 30, 2008

I Don't Get it...

Well something has been on my mind lately so maybe some people can give me some advice....

Well to start out this girl (not mentioning any names) has recently been bothering me. About three days ago this girl talked to my friend over the phone about something and well my boyfriend came up in the subject somehow. Well just to let you know my boyfriend is in boot camp till April 19: (... He left about a week and a half ago. Well this girl started saying how she hung out with him two nights before he left and said that when he comes back they were going to get together. But one of the nights she said he "hung out" with her I actually did... and then the other night he was spending time with his mom, so that really irritated me. Then later that night she messages me on MySpace (which is the devil) asking me questions and trying to have a conversation with me. I could have let it go but knowing me I have to know why she's saying all those things. Well sooner or later the conversation heated up and of course at this point she's just going off on me. She said that my boyfriend has been cheating on me, tells her everything instead of me, calling me stupid for still being with him cause of what he did, that they are going to end up together and he's def. going to pick her over me... All of that really got me frustrated and so mad! Also everything I said to her trying to defend myself and how that can't be true she, of course, had to say something that made me even more frustrated!... okay... my boyfriend and I both have had our flaw’s in the past, him more than me but we got over that part and decided to be together. Well that girl saying all of that kind of got me thinking and honestly a little freaked out. But josh was with me every day before he left, said the sweetest things, writes me from boot camp, and lately talked about the future. We have been together for over 3 1/2 years and with all the mistakes he has made he said he will never do any of it again. He freaks out if he does one thing wrong and gets scared that I’m going to leave him. I love this kid to death and he loves me more than anything, but since he's so far away I can't ask him in person only through letter which makes this situation difficult. So is that girl just trying to freak me out and just made all of that up for me to break up with him?? Or could it be possible he could have done any of that or said any of that?(I did write him but it'll be a couple a days till I get the results and I really need it off my mind)

3 comments:

Tabi said...

I honestly don't think you have anything to worry about with the pyscho girl.If he hasn't indicated that maybe he would be cheating on you or anything and you trust him then don't even bother with her.More than likely she is just trying to get under your skin so you get all self concious and brea up with him so she can go after him so the best thing you can do for now would be not to let her get under your skin because if she knows it then she will keep on doing it.

Brooxie said...

Sarah I do not think you should worry! Girls are so caddy and stupid and LOVE to cause drama. I guarantee you that she just wants to be with him so she is trying to stir things up between yall! I hope the situation gets better after he writes you! Good luck!

Maggie Jo said...

Hey lil Brock! I do not know what little skeezy girl you are talking about, but I got your back! I know it does totally suck when you have guy issues like that. I guess possibly, that is why Kyle is always by me. I never have to wonder where he is, even though I complain sometimes! I hope it works out and I love you!